Post by Jay Be on Dec 1, 2015 14:04:30 GMT
Yo, yo, yo
I have been writing some FR (Field Reports) that I was living in Australia (will still write many others) but there is a topic that is really important. I was having a lot of success with my with my interactions in Australia, learning like a rocket and still something was missing, something was not right inside of me. By the time I wrote this topic for the first time in a closed forum in Brazil I had had no rejections so far, I was like I had never dreamed to be one day, choosing among the best women around me, but still something was missing.
I remember an old joke in Brazil that goes more or less like this:
"A guy is lost in an desert island with Megan Fox, he is an average looking guy, she is MEGAN FOX. Being the only 2 people there they start dating and fucking everyday. The only date this guy would get before that day was a Medical Appointment and he was amazed by all of that. She was satisfied as nothing better was available. After some weeks she started to notice that he was not that happy anymore, looking down, quite depressed. One day she decided to ask: "What is wrong Baby? Do you think I am not attractive anymore?". He said: "no, is just that... hm... you know what, here take those cloths from the dead pilot and meet me on the other side of the Island". She thought that he was going crazy or gay, but still, she did it. As they met on the other side of the Island, he came to her with a big smile on his face and screaming out loud:"DUUUUDE, YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHO I AM FUCKING..."
We are social animals, we want to be part of a society, its on our instinct. What do you think that women do when they go all together to the toilet? I was missing the possibility of sharing my stories with someone, what is success good when you have no one to share with? Of course I was receiving feedback from my homies from the Forum and some times I would talk with Vic Stone or G.I. Joe about my adventures, but is not the same thing as having someone live a wingman.
It is difficult, but will help you so much. Find a Wingman that you can trust and exchange it all with him, that's a big step on becoming a better, happier man. All the interactions you are going to have from now on and the companion of a great wingman will be the fuel to keep going. Don't understand me wrong, I have many friends all over the world, but is not the same thing as talking to a person that has the same background and goals as you. We want to meet someone that can give us feedbacks share knowledge... some up.
Enjoy a great social circle,
Jay Be