FriendZone ouch it hurts - By Jay Be Dec 7, 2015 11:34:29 GMT
Post by Jay Be on Dec 7, 2015 11:34:29 GMT
Dude, if you are on a Friend zone and you think its her fault, I have no respect for you. Put your shit together, read this post and find your balls somewhere between your legs, you pussy.
Let's start by making it clear, you drove yourself to the Friend Zone, she was just doing what you asked her to do. I have been there, I know how it hurts... As I was in HighSchool there was this girl, she was the most beautiful girl in the class, and that class was my world (Everything is relative), I would do anything for her, walk her home, carry her material, write poems. I remember that every language redaction I had to do for school I would create characters with our initials, like if I were James Bond and she my bond girl. Until the day that we went to the cinema between some friends and she kissed the ugliest guy in our class in front of me, as if it were a message to me saying: "dude, don't you see?".
It happened later on a couple of times until the day that I understood that I was creating that by myself. It took me quite a long time to understand what was going on, and I would like to share my discoveries with you now. Its quite simple: If you are in any kind of relationship with a girl, making her laugh, doing things for her, buying her stuff but without expressing you real intentions, you will be Friend Zoned. This can happen during years of painful relationship or in a bar interaction. Yes, friend zones happen the whole time in Bars, let's see an example?
You arrive in a bar with a friend, he sees this beautiful girl sitting by herself (if she is alone there, either she is waiting for someone, she is a prostitute waiting for clients or she is just that brave either way she is nervous), so you go there and say "Hi, you are beautiful, can I pay you a drink?" (right, you are trying to buy her beauty with a drink). She is going to accept it, she prefer to be seen with you than to stay awkwardly alone there. You start telling her some jokes and amusing her, she is laughing but you do not touch her and you only say cute stuff because you are scared of blowing the interaction up. You give her 3 complements per min in the hope that she will think that you are cute. And you know what? She already thinks you are cute, she is actually thinking that you are a good friend with who she can wait until her friends arrive or a better guy comes up to pick her up.
BOOM, you just got friend zoned in 15 min.
Don't get me wrong, I respect the fact that you opened the girl, that you made her laugh and that it didn't work. I just don't respect you if you walk away complaining of how that bitch is stupid and bla, bla, bla...
If you don't want to get friend zoned you need to express what you really want, without the fear of losing the girl, give her the opportunity to save your dignity on the first 10 min.
If you are already friend zoned, than tell her what you really want today, let her tell you she has no interest at all, get depressed for the next 2 weeks and start living your fucking life like a man. We are here to help each other.
You fuckers, don't be shy, leave your questions bellow and I will answer as soon as possible, no one is here to judge what you did on the past. You already gave the first step in direction to a better life.
Enjoy your life.