Post by Jay Be on Nov 27, 2015 15:23:58 GMT
So guys, this is a field report I found on my archive. It's from 2008 but I believe that it can help many of you that are starting. For the more experienced ones may be a bit boring so please just scape this one. It's all about the mind set. It does not matter what cloths you are wearing or how rich you are.
Please feel comfortable to give feedbacks or make questions.
A while ago I was staying at my brothers place. As we woke up in the morning I saw that he was going out to buy bread, and as we didn't lived in the same city and I wanted to spend as much time with him as possible I decided to go with him. As I was dressed I left the house with him, dark green and red pijama pants, an old comfortable pullover and flip flops. I cannot think of any place in the world where those cloths would be acceptable for going to the grocery store, but I wasn't giving a shit.
As we were walking back, my uncle, my brother and I, my brother saw a beautiful girl (HB) talking to a normal one (UG) on a bus stop and challenged me to go there and talk to them:
The old me would would find all excuses in the world: "My face look like shit, my hair, cloths, flip flops, no way."
The new me didn't think about anything and went there to open the girls. My brother and my Uncle stayed waiting for me.
For the understanding (HB= Hot Babe. UG=Ugly Girl)
Me: Hey, good morning, do you know where I can find a grocery store? (we were just coming back from one, I don't know if they saw my brother with the bread bag on his hands, but that was the only thing that came into my mind):
HB: There is one just over there...
Me: All right, I come from Rio and just arrived to visit my brother (Demonstration of Family Values). What do you do to have fun over here?
HB: There is the Club X, its REAAAAAAALY COOL.
Me: I have heard about a place called Savassi, is it good?
HB: Its really nice, but its far away.
Me: right.. And during the afternoon, what can I do here?
UG: There is the Hippie Market on the Afonso Pena Road.
Me: is it far away? is there anything else?
HB: NO, the Hippie Market is tomorrow, no, wait, what day is today?
Me: Shhhh, things are not really good for you today hm? (Light Neg)
HB: Its because I am Holidays... (Justifying herself)
Me: people told me about the Mineirinho Stadium, is it good?
UG: Yes, its really cool but way smaller than the Hippie Market.
After that I ejected. I thanked them very much for the infos and wished a good day.
Mistakes:
1 - I had nothing on my pockets for getting a phone number. Actually I had no Pockets.
2- I didn't give them a time constrain.
3- I focused on the HB gave her too much attention, and almost none to the UG, probably because the HB was being really nice and responsive. But If I had stayed on the set any longer, probably the UG would have ejected for the fear of loosing her friend there.
4- I didn't go further with the conversation, stayed on the same conversation of the opener till the end.
5- I didn't touch them.
Good points:
1- I started walking in the direction of the Set in less than 3 seconds.
2- I kept the conversation
3- Didn't get any AA (Approach Anxiety) even being on my Pijamas.
4- Showed Value by saying I was from Rio.
5- I didn't over-Neg them, what is really easy to do on girls from that region.
Thats it guys, I hope that this Field Report help any of you guys that are starting.
Enjoy it
Jay Be
Please feel comfortable to give feedbacks or make questions.
A while ago I was staying at my brothers place. As we woke up in the morning I saw that he was going out to buy bread, and as we didn't lived in the same city and I wanted to spend as much time with him as possible I decided to go with him. As I was dressed I left the house with him, dark green and red pijama pants, an old comfortable pullover and flip flops. I cannot think of any place in the world where those cloths would be acceptable for going to the grocery store, but I wasn't giving a shit.
As we were walking back, my uncle, my brother and I, my brother saw a beautiful girl (HB) talking to a normal one (UG) on a bus stop and challenged me to go there and talk to them:
The old me would would find all excuses in the world: "My face look like shit, my hair, cloths, flip flops, no way."
The new me didn't think about anything and went there to open the girls. My brother and my Uncle stayed waiting for me.
For the understanding (HB= Hot Babe. UG=Ugly Girl)
Me: Hey, good morning, do you know where I can find a grocery store? (we were just coming back from one, I don't know if they saw my brother with the bread bag on his hands, but that was the only thing that came into my mind):
HB: There is one just over there...
Me: All right, I come from Rio and just arrived to visit my brother (Demonstration of Family Values). What do you do to have fun over here?
HB: There is the Club X, its REAAAAAAALY COOL.
Me: I have heard about a place called Savassi, is it good?
HB: Its really nice, but its far away.
Me: right.. And during the afternoon, what can I do here?
UG: There is the Hippie Market on the Afonso Pena Road.
Me: is it far away? is there anything else?
HB: NO, the Hippie Market is tomorrow, no, wait, what day is today?
Me: Shhhh, things are not really good for you today hm? (Light Neg)
HB: Its because I am Holidays... (Justifying herself)
Me: people told me about the Mineirinho Stadium, is it good?
UG: Yes, its really cool but way smaller than the Hippie Market.
After that I ejected. I thanked them very much for the infos and wished a good day.
Mistakes:
1 - I had nothing on my pockets for getting a phone number. Actually I had no Pockets.
2- I didn't give them a time constrain.
3- I focused on the HB gave her too much attention, and almost none to the UG, probably because the HB was being really nice and responsive. But If I had stayed on the set any longer, probably the UG would have ejected for the fear of loosing her friend there.
4- I didn't go further with the conversation, stayed on the same conversation of the opener till the end.
5- I didn't touch them.
Good points:
1- I started walking in the direction of the Set in less than 3 seconds.
2- I kept the conversation
3- Didn't get any AA (Approach Anxiety) even being on my Pijamas.
4- Showed Value by saying I was from Rio.
5- I didn't over-Neg them, what is really easy to do on girls from that region.
Thats it guys, I hope that this Field Report help any of you guys that are starting.
Enjoy it
Jay Be